Kimberly Wickham

By becoming aware of your predominant thoughts, and continually shifting your focus away from what you do not want towards what you do want, you will begin to see a change in the situations presenting themselves in your life. You will begin to realize that it is YOU who is actually in control. You will no longer feel like a tiny boat being tossed about by a turbulent sea.

How can I use the Law of Attraction to get what I want?

You can have anything you want – but you have to decide what it is you really want and stick with that thought. The more energy you put into a thought or an idea the more quickly and firmly it will manifest in your life (good or bad). Your current situation in life is a direct result of what you are feeling, thinking and believing.

Continually seek a better feeling. If you are feeling doubtful and victimized you will not attract what it is you are wanting. Feelings are the ultimate creative engine!

Take some proactive measures to bring the feeling of your desire into your current reality. When you think of it do so as if the object of your desire is already in your current reality. Access the emotion of it by cutting out pictures of it, painting it, drawing it, and creating it in any way you can. Keep it in your imaginary reality and it will manifest in your physical reality (there is real science behind this).

Stop worrying! Worry removes your focus from everything else and shifts your focus in a concentrated way on the very thing you fear. Worry and fear then join forces to bring into your existence that which you are fearing! The Law of Attraction responds not only to what we want but also to what we don’t want consciously as well as subconsciously.

Well, why not? We spend a lot of time teaching them Newtonian Physics (gravity) and plenty of other things that seem to control their reality. We can empower children by showing them how their world is created on a sub-atomic level, and show them how they are fully involved in it whether conscious of it or not. What better gift than to show a child they have the power to control their world.

This goes way beyond the idea of controlling your life through “positive thinking.” Although ‘positive thinking’ is a nice start, it won’t create a reality in and of itself. The reality is really created by thinking and feeling together. Mindless repetition of a positive thought doesn’t work because there is no feeling behind it. I have a friend who has labeled this the “Happy Face Sticker Over the Empty Gas Gauge” syndrome. To manifest your desires a fair amount of attention needs to be placed on that intended desire. Here’s the really tricky bit: to place attention on it and then ‘let it go’ and know it is forthcoming. No clock-watching to determine constantly whether or not it is here yet. Doing so only brings the thought that it isn’t here yet so it isn’t coming, and that emotion pushes it farther away.

You needn’t take it from me. There are innumerable resources which explain this at different levels of complexity. Quantum Physics has been around since at least the 1930s when Einstein began to popularize his atomic theories. We’ve all heard of E=MC2 (which, by the way, I explain to children 8-12 years old easily in Summer of Magic Horses). Once the Quantum Physicists got the Philosophers to understand how reality is created on a subatomic level, we were, and are, able to deliver it to the general population in terms they can understand and relate to.

By learning to listen deep within yourself you can gain insight into any situation. We are all graced with an inner knowing, an inner guidance system, which allows us to steer our way through life effortlessly if we pay close attention. Sounds simple, yet it is not easy because we get distracted by dramas unfolding in front of us.

By realizing that we are all part of each other, every entity, every object, everything; by the mere fact that we are made up of the same energy and only separated by the frequencies with which we vibrate, we gain the understanding that we are one thing. To do harm to another simply means doing harm to oneself. By offering kindness to another we are being kind to ourselves. All beings and things, no matter what they are apparently made of, deserve the same respect we would have for ourselves.